Boy Drama...😬 (UPDATE #3)

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#240142 Posted on 2021-06-01 08:39:43 Omg, this calls for a much needed update! Again, I'm going to warn anyone who doesn't want to hear about all this drama! --- Anyway, so, the last time you guys heard about the whole Landen mess was when he started dating Kylie and Landen and I were still talking---we were only friends. Well, before I get into the really juicy part of the story, I have to start from where I last ended. I got back to school after Spring Break and I told my close friends about it; but then other people started asking questions about Landen because they heard my friends and I talking about it. So word kind of traveled throughout a little group of people---most of them, I don't even talk to. Anytime someone brought up relationships or anything of the sort, everyone would always tease me about Landen. After about a week or two, Kylie emailed me and told me that he cheated on her and they had broken up, but he was still trying to get back with her. So that weekend, we planned to get together where I was gonna dress up as a dude and we were gonna take pictures and send them to Landen saying that he "missed his chance" and "she's already moved on." After I got home and was going back to school, I got a hold of his school email, so we started emailing with our Chromebooks and he was pretty dry until after he got his Chromebook fixed (he had broken it and had his phone taken so we didn't talk for a couple of weeks). He told me that things had been going downhill for him where he was sneaking out, hanging with the wrong group of people, all that. I told my friends about it and then they wanted to see pictures! So I emailed them some pictures that I had of him and two of them were horrified. They went on and on and on until the last day of school about how he was "so ugly" because he had red hair and all this.... I kind of ignored it and then I got out of school and I went to my mammaw's (I live with my mammaw in the summer and keep in mind from one of the very first stories that Landen is one of my mammaw's neighbors). He apparently got his phone back and he texted me, saying hello and asking me what I was doing, and all this other stuff. Kylie called me the day before she got out of school (I got out a week before she did) and we talked about everything---school, TV shows that we watch, movies, Landen, horses, camping, etc. We tried to make plans to get together the day after she got out of school, but when I asked if she could come over, we had to cancel because we were gonna be running around town to get a bunch of things ready to go camping because we were going that weekend---Memorial Day weekend. While we were in town, I didn't have to do much of anything, so I managed to work up the courage to straight-up tell Landen that I liked him. He told me that he hears people say that to him all the time at school and it kind of made me feel off, so I kept pushing it. He then told me that he was afraid that I was going to hurt him by "leaving him" because of his past, that's why he was being so dry and not opening up. I told him that I needed to know if he felt the same way for me as I did him because if he didn't, then I could move on because it was hurting me too much and distracting me from other more important things. He replied saying that he did feel the same way, he was just scared---again, because he thought I would hurt him. After a little while, Landen sent me a TikTok that, like, "predicted your future" or whatever and I said, "'I hope that TikTok is right.'" He replied, saying "'Me too'" and after a hot minute, I asked him if he meant that to be our future together... and he said yes. We kind of stopped talking for a while again that day and then he sent me another TikTok saying "'Send this to someone you want to spend your summer with.'" So I sent him a TikTok saying, "'These are the kind of dates I want to go on with someone's son.'" After another hot minute... (drumroll please)... he asked me if I would be his! I said yes and we made plans literally the next day to go fishing. The only thing was, it was supposed to be muddy and disgusting outside, so I warned him that I may not be able to go since my mammaw was already upset that I had completely soaked my boots from where I trekked all the way out in the horse's field to go feed and water from all the grass (some of the grass came up to my thigh) got me soaking. The day finally came where we were supposed to go fishing and when I actually asked to go, I had to cancel plans again because of the exact reason I thought. Landen got kind of upset that I couldn't come see him and he called me, complaining how the grass wasn't even that high over at the pond and it wasn't even that wet. And he has some anger issues, so when I say he got mad... he got really mad! I told him to chill and that I was gonna see if I could work something out so maybe I could drive the four wheeler down the road to say "Hi." Landen finally calmed down and we hung up so I could play some 8-Ball Pool up in our garage. I asked my mammaw again and she again said no because she got the impression that he wanted to do something to me---obviously I understood what she was talking about, but the one thing that I don't get is she knows I'm perfectly capable to handling myself in those situations. Goes on about how I have dabbled in hand-to-hand combat and self-defense when necessary. The next day, we were gonna leave to go camping, which was just going to be at on of our camping buddies' houses and it was just right down the road from us. I texted Landen and told him that I was gonna be riding four wheelers and doing all kinds of crazy stuff while I was camping, so if I didn't see or answer his texts, then that was why. That evening/night (around maybe 6 PM or so), he texted me something that made my heart instantly drop. He said, "'I don't think this is gonna work out.'" I asked why not? and he said that there was "another girl." Now, I'm going to be completely honest with you for this next part because there was no sugarcoatin' this. I lost it and went off on him, saying that I don't even know why you've already found a new girl when we haven't been together for long. I said that if he can't even keep a stable relationship for ONE WEEK, then he can go **** off and not talk to me anymore. Then he started telling me all these lies about his love life that Kylie and I both knew darn well were not true, so I just deleted our messages. Kylie even told her mom about it---she tells her mom everything---and her mom said it in front of her mother-in-law, or Kylie's grandma, and then her grandma told my mammaw! No one said anything until the next day, luckily. But that night, Kylie and I listened to heartbreak songs as a joke and when I went to bed that night, I never cried; I only wanted to bash Landen's head in because I was so mad. The next day, though, we found a hill that we could use as a jump/ramp and we got on our four wheelers where we could get just the right speed to literally fly over that hill. I ended up running out of gas, so my mammaw and I went back to the house to get a gas can and fill up our four wheelers. That's when she said that I just need to kind of forget Landen for now because he's just trying to manipulate me and twist my feelings around. When we got back to the camp, Kylie ran over to me and told me that Landen has a new girlfriend and he had even posted a picture of her on his Snapchat story. We got on the side-by-side, or Mule, as this one is actually called, and she showed me the picture of his new girlfriend. Not gonna lie (even though this is really low and rude), Kylie and I both thought she was ugly. After riding the Mule and listening to more joke heartbreak songs, we got back on the four wheelers while it was just us alone, so we could do all kinds of things. We ended up making a video of me riding my four wheeler and jumping over that hill and then giving the camera the bird, so we could send it to Landen. We had to go back home that day---and we left around 7 or 8 PM---so I rode in the back of the truck bed back to the house since it wasn't that far down the road. As we passed Landen's house, I saw him outside and he just stood there like an idiot, staring at me as I went by. That night, my mammaw finally went on a lecture about how I just don't need to worry about Landen and we could still be friends, but nothing more. Then she told me that for now, I just need a big group of friends instead of boyfriends. I honestly annoyed me, not gonna lie. The next day, I was texting Kylie and she said that Landen posted another picture on his Snapchat story of him and his new girlfriend kissing! So Kylie and I agreed that she would come over to my mammaw's more often so we could drive by Landen's house and give him the bird if we see him outside, just to tease him. --- If you made it this far, go get yourself a snack and give yourself a pat on the back, because I'm sure not everyone wants to read about my problems. Especially if the whole story is this long! Anyways, thanks, guys, and I hope I don't have to write much more about it much longer lol! 1 members like this post.	Posted By Rosewood Manor Equine #121791 Member is Offline 441 forum posts Send A Message
#240151 Posted on 2021-06-01 09:56:53 Boys. Still having problems with the one at my school. He's now claiming we're "together" Everybody thinks I like him. I don't. I hate him. If I were to like a boy, he'd be a country boy who respects my obbession for horses. And he doesn't. I tell my friends that if I did like him, why don't I have his number? I don't have his number and I don't want it. Last week, I finally I got snap (even though it won't work cause my phone is broken such as texting and my camera so can't do anything on it). Hopefully he hasn't added me. If so, I'll just block him. 0 members like this post.	Posted By ɦօʀֆɛɢɨʀʟ #124387 Member is Offline 4402 forum posts Send A Message
#240254 Posted on 2021-06-02 08:01:08 @horsegirl, sounds like we're both having some major problems with boys still... hopefully it works out well for the both of us! And soon! 0 members like this post.	Posted By Rosewood Manor Equine #121791 Member is Offline 441 forum posts Send A Message
#240257 Posted on 2021-06-02 08:26:30 Yeah lol, at least I don't have to deal with him for two months! 0 members like this post.	Posted By ɦօʀֆɛɢɨʀʟ #124387 Member is Offline 4402 forum posts Send A Message
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