Meh Heart Is Broken💔

well I've been dating this guy for almost a year and now he has to move back to Virginia. I don't know what to do or how to feel. My head hurts and I've been crying for two days. Yeah we've talked about long distance but we are both scared. I know some of may not care but I needed to vent and see what you guys think.

*hugs* a broken heart hurts so much. I know this is the last thing you want to hear, but I'll say it anyways: what is meant to be, will always be. ♥

If you ever need to talk, my inbox is always open!

I completely understand you right now. My boyfriend and I recently had to break up for reasons I won't discuss. We still love each other with everything we have and we hope things will work out.

But hey, what Gaia said, if it's meant to be, it'll happen. I've had to take a lot of corny/cliche statements about love to heart to get through what I'm going through, and here's what's helped the most:

God does everything for a reason. It may hurt now, but he's got a better thing in store for you in the future. So just trust Him and take peace in knowing it'll all be alright.

Sorry to get all Godly there, but I'm a Christian and that's what's helped me, too. Feel free to take it and run with it, or ignore it. I'm here to help, or at least try. :)

Thank you guys

I can completely understand. My boyfriend of a year had to move for work several months back. It's hard, I won't pretend like it isn't. But things that are important are worth fighting for. I wouldn't give up on my guy for anything. And sure, I'd much rather have him around all the time, but I'd also rather have him far away, than not have him at all. If it's meant to work, and you both want it to work, you'll find a way to make it happen :)

Royal:

my boyfriend and i are long distance.
He lives only 750+ miles away but neither of us can regularly visit. It's been 3 years since he's been moved to the new state. It's hard but it does say a lot about how y'all feel about each other.

if y'all find your relationship worth fighting for, you will conquer it.

Yeah I told him that it will really show of we love each other. So I think we are gonna try it. I am just scared.

just keep up your communication. Have skype? Use it. Dont have it? Get it.
We skype every night and I actually can't sleep without him on video with me now. It's a habit I should probably break but dont want to just yet.

If you ever need to talk to someone who's dealt with/dealing with the situation, im here. I can share stories good and bad, or just listen.

Going on nearly 1.5 years long distance between Texas and Colorado. In 2 weeks, I'm moving in with him! It was a really good career move for me, and we've had a really good relationship. I made regular trips to see him (usually every 6-8 weeks,) and we both live in metro areas, so I could get cheap flights and his work was flexible, so he came down to visit for extended periods around the holidays. There's a lot to think about with long distance - can you make regular visits? Is either of you in a position to move - away from a job, family, friends, social activities? My boyfriend really helped me to reduce my debt, which is one of the reasons I really like being with him - he makes me a better, smarter person. Best of luck to you ♥ ♥ ♥